My new blog goals are to write every day on this stupid thing, post pictures, and get people reading it!
I feel kinda frustrated. This Thanksgiving Break sucked because I was sick with the flu. Sucky. Oh well. Danny has been really nice to me the whole time. He is my angel :)
Hopefully I will get better in time for school tomorrow.
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving!
Ugh sick. I think that I am starting to experience morning sickness. I really hope that it's not happening.
This morning I felt totally absolutely disgusting. It doesn't help that on top of it all, I have an ear infection. Well, a self-diagnosed one at least. It's T-day and therefore all of the urgent care clinics are closed. Danny went to the store and got me some Tylenol. I feel a little better now.
Ugh until it's time to eat later tonight.
This morning I felt totally absolutely disgusting. It doesn't help that on top of it all, I have an ear infection. Well, a self-diagnosed one at least. It's T-day and therefore all of the urgent care clinics are closed. Danny went to the store and got me some Tylenol. I feel a little better now.
Ugh until it's time to eat later tonight.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Picking an OB/GYN
I don't know why. I guess I'm sexist. I don't want a male OB/GYN. I just...don't. Unfortunately, there were only 5 options on the list of OB/GYN's that are covered by my insurance, as opposed to 20 or 30 male doctors. Weird.
Danny and I strongly believe that any man who decides he wants to look at womens' vaginas for his living is a little bit strange. I'm sure many (if not most), are competent, caring, knowledgable, wonderful doctors. But you can still be all those things and still be a bit strange.
So...I started calling the female OB/GYN's.
"Um, our OB/GYN's choose not to practice OB right now. Sorry."
2 down, 3 to go.
"Dr. Grover is full, but our other doctors aren't..."
"Um, are they male?"
"Yes."
"Well...um...I'm sorry but I think I'll keep looking."
"No problem! Good luck."
3 down. Now I'm worried.
I looked online and the only two left work at the same clinic in American Fork. It's kind of ridiculous that I would have to drive all the way 30 minutes north instead of using facilities that are literally 5 minutes from my house, but distance is not my priority. I want a woman doctor.
When I called the clinic, the answering-thing that directs you to press numbers for different services said that one of the female Doctors is on leave until Fall 2009.
1 more.
I got the answering machine
Now what?
CNM - Certified Nurse Midwives - are covered through the BYU student health insurance.
Obviously, not all midwives are the same. Law midwives don't have to complete nursing school. CNM's do. Basically, the only difference between a CNM and an OB is that CNM's can't perform C-sections.
Now, I'm not all into the whole alternative medicine, no-pain-killer births. I mean, if you are, that's your prerogative. I just feel now that I will want the option of having an epidural, of birthing in a hospital or clinic, of modern medecine. Danny feels strongly the same way.
I looked online at the CNM options. There was a female CNM listed at the Central Orem Health Center. I googled her name to find more information. I also looked up her peers at ratemd.com. They had great reviews. The one complaint for their clinic is the wait time. All of the posts agreed that the doctors there were friendly, helpful, caring, and knowledgeable.
I don't care if I will have to wait. Maybe later, when it is my 7th or 8th child (hmm...can't see that far), I will feel differently.
The perks to having this CNM is that she is the only CNM at her clinic. An OB/GYN is always available. I will deliver there, not at home. I will have all the benefits of both the care and modern medicine. I feel very good about this decision. Especially knowing that she is also a certified nurse.
I won't have my first appointment for another 5 weeks. I think that's okay. If there are problems, I can change that. Probably there won't be. I will be 10 weeks pregnant by then.
Which is silly, because the baby will only be 8 weeks old. How can I be 10 weeks pregnant when the baby is only 8 weeks old??? Weird.
I know that the best way to research this would be to ASK people, but unfortunately I don't think other people seem to share in this, my number one top priority. So. I don't want people to be insulted when they tell me to go to Dr. so-and-so or Dr. so-and-so, but I have already ruled them out because of their gender. I think I'm allowed to be picky about this. And even if I'm not, seriously who's stopping me?
Danny and I strongly believe that any man who decides he wants to look at womens' vaginas for his living is a little bit strange. I'm sure many (if not most), are competent, caring, knowledgable, wonderful doctors. But you can still be all those things and still be a bit strange.
So...I started calling the female OB/GYN's.
"Um, our OB/GYN's choose not to practice OB right now. Sorry."
2 down, 3 to go.
"Dr. Grover is full, but our other doctors aren't..."
"Um, are they male?"
"Yes."
"Well...um...I'm sorry but I think I'll keep looking."
"No problem! Good luck."
3 down. Now I'm worried.
I looked online and the only two left work at the same clinic in American Fork. It's kind of ridiculous that I would have to drive all the way 30 minutes north instead of using facilities that are literally 5 minutes from my house, but distance is not my priority. I want a woman doctor.
When I called the clinic, the answering-thing that directs you to press numbers for different services said that one of the female Doctors is on leave until Fall 2009.
1 more.
I got the answering machine
Now what?
CNM - Certified Nurse Midwives - are covered through the BYU student health insurance.
Obviously, not all midwives are the same. Law midwives don't have to complete nursing school. CNM's do. Basically, the only difference between a CNM and an OB is that CNM's can't perform C-sections.
Now, I'm not all into the whole alternative medicine, no-pain-killer births. I mean, if you are, that's your prerogative. I just feel now that I will want the option of having an epidural, of birthing in a hospital or clinic, of modern medecine. Danny feels strongly the same way.
I looked online at the CNM options. There was a female CNM listed at the Central Orem Health Center. I googled her name to find more information. I also looked up her peers at ratemd.com. They had great reviews. The one complaint for their clinic is the wait time. All of the posts agreed that the doctors there were friendly, helpful, caring, and knowledgeable.
I don't care if I will have to wait. Maybe later, when it is my 7th or 8th child (hmm...can't see that far), I will feel differently.
The perks to having this CNM is that she is the only CNM at her clinic. An OB/GYN is always available. I will deliver there, not at home. I will have all the benefits of both the care and modern medicine. I feel very good about this decision. Especially knowing that she is also a certified nurse.
I won't have my first appointment for another 5 weeks. I think that's okay. If there are problems, I can change that. Probably there won't be. I will be 10 weeks pregnant by then.
Which is silly, because the baby will only be 8 weeks old. How can I be 10 weeks pregnant when the baby is only 8 weeks old??? Weird.
I know that the best way to research this would be to ASK people, but unfortunately I don't think other people seem to share in this, my number one top priority. So. I don't want people to be insulted when they tell me to go to Dr. so-and-so or Dr. so-and-so, but I have already ruled them out because of their gender. I think I'm allowed to be picky about this. And even if I'm not, seriously who's stopping me?
I am Preggo!
Wow. That was fast!
I keep waking up famished. I am dizzy and tired. I have very mild cramps, nowhere near as bad as my regular menstrual cramps. My tummy feels funny. I have to pee all the time. I get heartburn. I also get hungry more often. I don't have any morning sickness, but that's probably because my mom and grandma didn't, either.
So far we haven't even told everyone yet. It was funny the way we told our parents:
"Can you get a piece of paper and a pen? We want to tell you our Christmas list."
[groans from parents]
"Okay. We want two more wii controlers, some gift certificates...a crib..."
Hehehe.
Wow. This is amazing.
I keep waking up famished. I am dizzy and tired. I have very mild cramps, nowhere near as bad as my regular menstrual cramps. My tummy feels funny. I have to pee all the time. I get heartburn. I also get hungry more often. I don't have any morning sickness, but that's probably because my mom and grandma didn't, either.
So far we haven't even told everyone yet. It was funny the way we told our parents:
"Can you get a piece of paper and a pen? We want to tell you our Christmas list."
[groans from parents]
"Okay. We want two more wii controlers, some gift certificates...a crib..."
Hehehe.
Wow. This is amazing.
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